This article explores the optimization of communication in Vehicular Ad-Hoc Networks (VANETs) through the use of realistic traffic simulation in Raipur City, located in the state of Chhattisgarh. VANETs are a specialized type of Mobile Ad-Hoc Networks (MANETs) that enable vehicles to communicate with each other and with roadside infrastructure, improving road safety, traffic efficiency, and providing additional services. However, VANETs encounter challenges due to the dynamic nature of vehicular environments, including high mobility, intermittent connectivity, and varying traffic conditions. To address these challenges, this study proposes the Integration to Message Exchange (IME) method, which incorporates realistic traffic simulation into VANET communication optimization strategies. Realistic traffic simulation models vehicle behavior and interactions with the road network, considering factors such as traffic flow, congestion, and road conditions. By integrating this simulation into VANET communication optimization algorithms, the performance of the proposed IME method and other routing strategies is evaluated under realistic traffic scenarios. The results demonstrate that the IME method significantly improves message delivery rates and reduces message latency compared to the D-LAR and AODV routing methods. In comparison to the DLAR method, the IME method increases the packet delivery ratio by 4.82%, reduces end-to-end delay by 4.0%, increases throughput by 4.85%, decreases routing overhead by 8.79%, and normalizes routing load by 7.71%. The city of Raipur in Chhattisgarh is the geographical context for this research. Raipur is a rapidly growing urban area with diverse traffic patterns and road conditions. By conducting experiments and simulations in this specific setting, the findings of this study can directly address the challenges faced by VANETs in Raipur City.