A quick Internet search exposes an online library of sex advice for how to orgasm (if you are a woman) and/or assist a woman in having an orgasm. Headlines like the following from Cosmopolitan, a women's magazine, address the confusion and concern surrounding the existence of women's orgasms (or lack thereof):• "8 Reasons You're Not Orgasming" • "10 Things Guys Don't Understand about the Female Orgasm"• "Sex Positions that Help You Orgasm."These tips emerge from the disheartening statistics that women orgasm less frequently than men do. For example, some estimates have found that 75 % of men consistently orgasm during partnered sex (i.e., they orgasm every time), whereas only 29 % of women reported that they consistently orgasm during their sexual interactions (Laumann et al. 1994). Given that orgasm is often used as the metric of sexual success and pleasure, these statistics might spawn assumptions that heterosexual women do not enjoy partnered sex in the same way or to the same