“…For Clarissa, gifting her personal property as heirlooms is not about preserving the family´s legacy, but instead creates an obligation to preserve her personal history; she stresses how important it is that she be able to ‘tell my own story’ (Richardson, 2004, 53). Clarissa’s will is the place where she uses her gifts, such as gifting her letters to Anna Howe, to control whom she will permit to keep her memory alive, taking charge of her self‐representation as Kathleen M. Oliver has argued (Oliver, 2010, 35–60). In this way, Clarissa’s gifts of her personal property to those outside her family are part of a desire to preserve her memory and show affection for her friends.…”