“…The longer the display of this gesture, the more time a child has to respond, either accepting the offer and reaching for the stranger or refusing the offer and withdrawing. Middle-class German parents are taught to follow a sensitive-responsive parenting style that gives room to the child’s needs and wishes (Landry, Smith, & Swank, 2006; Love, Suarez, & Love, 2008). Waiting for the child’s response to the offer of carrying is a perfect example for responsive parenting behavior.…”