Detection of aberrantly spliced genes is an important step in RNA-seq-based rare disease diagnostics. We recently developed FRASER, a denoising autoencoder-based method for aberrant splicing detection that outperformed alternative approaches. However, as FRASER's three splice metrics are partially redundant and tend to be sensitive to sequencing depth, we introduce here a more robust intron excision metric, the Intron Jaccard Index, that combines alternative donor, alternative acceptor, and intron retention signal into a single value. Moreover, we optimized model parameters and filter cutoffs using candidate rare splice-disrupting variants as independent evidence. On 16,213 GTEx samples, our improved algorithm called typically 10 times fewer splicing outliers while increasing the proportion of candidate rare splice-disrupting variants by 10 fold and substantially decreasing the effect of sequencing depth on the number of reported outliers. Application on 303 rare disease samples confirmed the reduction fold-change of the number of outlier calls for a slight loss of sensitivity (only 2 out of 22 previously identified pathogenic splicing cases not recovered). Altogether, these methodological improvements contribute to more effective RNA-seq-based rare diagnostics by a drastic reduction of the amount of splicing outlier calls per sample at minimal loss of sensitivity.