The modern family, as before, plays an important role in the formation of the social environment in which the child grows and develops. The role of the family in the education of primary school children needs to be reconsidered, it is obvious that the partnership dialogue of parents is the most important condition for the well-being of the child. This article discusses the role of the family and the main forms of communication of primary school children and parents. The issues of improving the educational activity of the family by establishing effective communication styles were touched upon. The family shows the relevance of communication from the point of view of psychology. After all, the family is the first collective of the child, the natural environment of his development and the founder of the future personality. In addition, the article describes the types of communication styles between family members for good education