“Khuruj fi sabilillah” (Traveler in faith) by the followers of Tabligh Jamaat requires the husband not to physically and mentally support his wife for a particular time. Whereas conceptually, fulfilling physical and mental maintenance is one of the instruments to maintain household harmony. This research is qualitative and descriptive and uses a sociological approach. Data were obtained through observation, interviews, and documentation. The results showed that the husband's departure to do khuruj fi sabilillah did not adversely affect their household harmony. The fulfillment of the physical livelihood of the family members left behind is resolved through the concept of deliberation and good planning, while the fulfillment of inner livelihood is also not a severe problem because the wives have let go of their husbands, who are believed to be preaching jihad for good. The spaciousness of the heart to let go of the husband is a vital asset for the wife so that the unfulfillment of inner sustenance is no longer a problem. This study shows that followers of the Tabligh Jamaat in North Gorontalo marriage age has lasted for a long time is a sociological reason in itself, so inner maintenance is no longer a priority in life.