This paper primarily addresses the people of effectively mainstream embodiment who make up the bulk of the body psychotherapy profession. It suggests that we need to explore and deconstruct this subject position and to think about how it may set up oppressive assumptions about our task and how we carry it out, as well as about who is capable of becoming a practitioner. Drawing in particular on disability theory, I aim to bring into question notions of "normal," ideal or optimal embodiment and to argue for a focus instead on the real, imperfect, damaged and unique bodies which we encounter in our practice.affordances, body psychotherapy, crip theory, disability,
misfitting, normativityIt's not our bodies that need curing. Rather, it is ableism . . . that needs changing. (Eli Clare, 2018, p. 91) Someone with whom I have a supervisory relationship, and who leads a body psychotherapy module on a training course, has recently had a wheelchair user attending the module. How this affected them, the trainee and the module is not my story to tell, but working with this in supervision has opened me up to what increasingly strikes me as a major difficulty in the theory and practice of body psychotherapy-not a new difficulty, but one which has always been there and has been insufficiently examined. I will call this the problem of normativity, by which I mean the explicit or implicit presentation of a normal, ordinary, "proper" body against which actual bodies may be found wanting in a variety of ways.I am choosing to present this here, rather than in a specialist body psychotherapy journal, because I think that essentially the same problem-an intensely political one-of a "normal" yardstick occurs right across the range of psychotherapy modalities. In the body psychotherapy context the issue is amplified in ways which make it, helpfully, more visible, just as a body is inherently more visible than a mind (though no less subject to misperception). So, the following discussion should also be relevant for practitioners who do not work in a consciously embodied way.