In this paper, a high-performance electro-optical tunable grating-assisted directional coupler (GADC) is proposed and demonstrated experimentally. Our proposed GADC consists of a two-mode waveguide (TMW) and a single-mode waveguide (SMW) formed with lithium niobite (LN). By introducing a longperiod waveguide grating into the side-wall of the TMW to compensate for the phase mismatch of the fundamental modes of the SMW and TMW, the fundamental modes of the two waveguides can be coupled e ciently each other at a speci c wavelength. Furthermore, push-pull electrode structure is introduced to achieve the electro-optic (EO) tuning function featuring high speed, low driving voltage, and large tuning range. The best LN GADC we fabricated on x-cut LN substrate using annealing proton exchange process shows a high isolation of ~ 34 dB at 1532.9 nm wavelength, quite large EO tuning e ciency of 1.195 nm/V (1526.4-1549.1 nm) or 1.736 nm/V (1576.1-1602.2 nm), and a thermo-optic tuning e ciency of 0.128 nm/°C (22 °C-60 °C). Our proposed LN GADC can nd applications in the elds of high-speed tunable wavelength ltering, mode ltering, and EO modulation.