“…Rather than the physical aspects of the end stage of dementia, carers' experiences and responses are shaped by the dementia-related behaviours and the experience of prolonged loss, including loss of choice and control when someone moves into a care home or is transferred to hospital (Loos, 1997;McCarthy et al, 1997;Albinssion andStrang, 2003a, 2003b;Bond et al, 2003;Bowes and Wilkinson, 2003;Diwan et al, 2004). Studies highlight the mixed feelings caregivers experience at the death of the person with dementia, the importance of a 'goodbye moment' and the misconception that all the grieving has already been done by the time a person with dementia dies (Almberg et al, 2000;Adams, 2004). Although when there has been a protracted period of caring, a study of 217 family carers found relief is a significant emotion when the person with dementia dies, with only a minority (14%) requiring bereavement related services (Schulz et al, 2003).…”