Knowledge Graphs (KGs) have been instrumental in mitigating the challenges of cold start and data scarcity in recommender systems, serving as a kind of auxiliary information. However, recent studies reveal that KGs, while beneficial, may also inadvertently furnish malicious attackers with more comprehensive background knowledge, escalating the risk of user privacy data breaches within these recommender systems. Current frameworks, which amalgamate KGs with privacy-preserving techniques, predominantly concentrate on enhancing privacy preservation, often at the expense of recommendation efficacy. In this research, we introduce a framework, named Differential Privacy Knowledge graph Neural network for Recommender systems (DPKNRec), designed to harmonize the trade-off between differential privacy noise and recommendation performance. Firstly, we formulate an integrated KG convolutional neural network adept at mining interrelationships between KG entities and item correlations effectively. Secondly, we incorporate a differential privacy technique to impose uniform Laplacian noise on feature embeddings and obfuscate genuine user-item interactions through pseudo-interaction item sampling, thereby augmenting user data security. Lastly, we evaluate our model using three distinct datasets-movies, music, and books. Empirical results from three benchmarks indicate that DPKNRec markedly supersedes contemporary benchmarks.