BackgroundFamily planning decisions can be influenced by several factors, including social and clinical support. Lack of support can hinder autonomous and informed pregnancy choices and healthcare access. Adolescents commonly use the internet as a communication platform and information source. This study sought to identify online reports of parental paternalism’s influence abortion knowledge and access, and how virtual a community responded to paternalistic determinants.MethodsWe explored abortion discussions on Reddit, an online platform that houses virtual communities of anonymous users (Dec 13, 2019 – Mar 1, 2020). We identified relevant posts within the “r/abortion” community using scoping review data collection methods. Relevant posts included those that discussed parents, familial/cultural values, and young age (n=93); Of these, 58 posts fit the research question. We analyzed initial posts and responses using theory-driven thematic analysis through collaborative deductive codes and thematic maps.ResultsR/abortion users discussed the parental and clinical role in family planning. Unsupportive interactions hindered users’ ability to make autonomous abortion decisions. Parents and the health system commonly upheld physical, financial, and privacy barriers. Users shared experiences and advice to overcome paternalistic influence, and offered decision-making, coping, and access resources. Young people felt empowered and informed by online conversations.ConclusionsPaternalistic barriers brought individuals to participate in r/abortion conversations. In addition to lacking knowledge to make abortion decisions, users were not informed of available services and how to navigate healthcare. R/abortion’s anonymity facilitated candid abortion discussions, provided health information, and helped users access abortion care. Peer-to-peer abortion discussions can be especially useful during COVID-19 to foster support in overcoming potentially increased isolation, parental involvement, and healthcare barriers. Family planning experts can use these communities as a tool to engage in person-centered efforts outside of traditional health systems.