La ferninit6 normative place les m&res dans une situation difficile, entre la dkpendance et la tendance a se dkvouer; d'un c M , les bonnes meres devraient btre dependantes dans une relation avec un mhle pourvoyeur. Inversement, elles devraient fournir de bons soins par un maternage actif, habile ainsi que par leur engagement. Cette condition pose des defis aux femmes ayant une incapacitb et dont la dependance a l'egard d'un partenaire masculin peut entrainer de la, vulnerabilite par rapport a l'abus, alors que de la dependance envers 1'Etat peut decouler de la pauvrete et de la surveillance. L'auteure explore les dilemmes que les meres handicapees rencontrent pour concilier leur position de d6pendance par rapport aux besoins de leurs enfants d'btre maternes. Compliquant les conceptions negatives de la dependance, plusieurs femmes ont decrit comment certaines relations de dependance leur ont apport6, a elles et a leurs enfants, des reseaux positifs de soutien.Normative femininity offers mothers a tightrope of nurturance and dependency. On the one hand, good mothers should be dependent through a relationship with a male provider. Conversely, they should provide nurturance through active, involved and expert mothering. This tightrope poses challenges to women with disabilities whose dependency on male partners can bring vulnerability to abuse, while dependency on the state can result in poverty and surveillance. This article explores the dilemmas disabled mothers face, reconciling their position of dependency against their children's need for nurturance. Complicating negative conceptions of dependency, many women described how some relations of dependency provided them and their children with positive networks of support.
WESTERN NORMS CONCERNING MOTHERHOOD AND FEMINITY offer women a tightrope upon which to balance dependency and nurturance. On* The author would like to thank the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council for its generous funding of this project. This article would not have been possible without the research assistance of Tiffany Boulton, Lynette Schick, Jill Veenendaal and Michelle Volkart. Finally, I would like to express my appreciation to Bonnie Fox for her comments on earlier drab, and to Ralph Matthews and the three anonymous reviewers who provided outstanding comments and suggestions. This manuscript