“…Across our case studies cemeteries and crematoria gardens can be regarded as public spaces where everyday encounters are made ( Francis et al, 2000 ; Grabalov & Nordh, 2021 ; Maddrell, Beebeejaun, et al, 2021 ; Maddrell, Beebeejaun, McClymont, Mathijssen, et al, 2018 ; Maddrell, Beebeejaun, McClymont, McNally, et al, 2018 ; Maddrell, McNally, et al, 2021 ; Swenson & Skår, 2018 ), which can result in conflict between different interests and practices, or community for example through spaces that gather people with joint needs or interests. The cemetery has been described as a liminal space in numerous ways, including as a “floating border between private-public spaces” ( Swensen & Brendalsmo, 2018 , p. 88): even if most are publicly accessible spaces, they provide ‘private’ burial plots that are bought or rented and are commonly treated more or less as “miniature home gardens” ( Kjærsgaard & Venbrux, 2016 ) where “memory objects … form a specific passage landscape between life and death” ( Maddrell et al, 2021 , p. 8). Moreover, what is permitted within these spaces in terms of behaviour, memorial, and burial practices is regulated nationally and/or locally and not least as normative “unwritten rules” in people’s minds ( Nordh et al, 2017 ).…”