Background: The purpose of this project was to understand how college students on the autism spectrum integrate their diagnosis into their identity, whether they connect with a broader ''autism community,'' and when and why they disclose their diagnosis to other people. Methods: Twenty participants completed semistructured interviews by phone, text message, or email. An inductive approach was used to generate codes, and results were synthesized via thematic analysis, theme counts, comparing and contrasting cases, and examining outliers. Results: Across participants and interview topics, the students in our study expressed a desire to be understood and known genuinely by other people. Interviews revealed that autistic identity is complex and variable across individuals. Most of the students in our study did not feel part of a broader autism community, although several reported that some of their close friends were on the spectrum as well. Our participants rarely disclosed their autism to other people, and this decision was often informed by whether the disclosure would support or inhibit understanding. Conclusions: Results suggest there is a need for neurotypical people to be more accepting, affirming, and empathetic in their interactions with neurodivergent people. In addition, our results suggest that autistic college students may not participate in services that explicitly connect groups of students on the spectrum or require disclosure of their diagnosis. College students with autism should be involved in the development of college supports and services that are consistent with their values and disclosure practices.