This essay explicates the communication competence model of conflict. The model proposes that conflict communication influences judgments of competence, which in turn, influence relational outcomes. In particular, integrative conflict behaviors tend to be judged as relatively appropriate and effective communication, thereby enhancing relational outcomes such as attraction, trust, control mutuality, intimacy, and relational satisfaction. Distributive conflict behaviors, on the other hand, are perceived to be less appropriate and less effective, which consequently damages relational outcomes. A review of empirical studies from the domains of interpersonal and organizational communication generally supports these claims, and demonstrates that competence judgments mediate the association between conflict communication and relational outcomes. The competence model has been applied principally to friendships, dating relationships, marital relationships, and decision-making task relationships in a workplace setting. It would be beneficial to test the model in other types of relationships where conflict is common, such as sibling relationships, parent-child relationships, and relationships between service-providers and clients. In addition, a more complete picture of the role of competence judgments will require exploring how more complex sequences and patterns of conflict behaviors relate to competence judgments.Conflict is a natural and endemic feature of interpersonal connection. It is the inevitable consequence of the interdependent nature of people's relationships with one another. Conflict figures prominently in relationships between married partners, friends, family members, relatives, co-workers, neighbors, and others (Argyle and Furnham 1983). Although the word conflict often carries negative connotations and its experience tends to be aversive, it can also yield positive consequences. When conflict is handled poorly, it can produce personal distress, leave opportunities unfulfilled, damage or destroy social and personal relationships, and lead to psychological or physical aggression. When conflict is managed competently, however, it can diminish anxiety, solve problems, enhance relationship closeness and solidarity, and foster prosocial, non-aggressive patterns of interaction. The ability to manage conflict successfully is a fundamental aspect of interpersonal competence (e.g., Buhrmester et al. 1988;Grover et al. 2012).