Plants form beneficial symbioses with a variety of different microbes. Among these, the root associated arbuscular mycorrhizal fungi, ectomycorrhizal fungi, rhizobial, and actinobacterial symbioses are some of the best understood. The successful establishment of these symbioses relies on a complex, coordinated signal exchange that arose from hundreds of millions of years of coevolution between plants and their associated microbes. Despite the diversity of these microbial symbionts, common signalling mechanisms were evolved that include the manipulation of host immunity and the use of similar plant‐ and microbe‐derived signals and receptors. Owing to the plethora of information on these diverse symbioses, their signalling mechanisms are rarely reviewed together and even less so within an evolutionary context. We provide an overview of what is known regarding the evolution of these signals in an effort to highlight knowledge gaps in our understanding of plant–microbe symbiosis.