“…The paper builds on feminist, ethnographic, oral history and psychosocial research on sensitive topics such as living with violence and abuse, death and long term health conditions (Campbell et al, 2009;Benoot and Bilsen, 2015;Dickson-Swift et al, 2009;Holmes, 2014;Holland, 2007;Hollway, 2016;Hutcheson, 2014;Marks and Monnich Marks, 2003;Roper, 2003;Watts, 2008). Psychodynamic therapist and psychiatrist, Searles (2000) describes clients accessing therapy as everyday therapists, wanting to make sense of their lives and assisting the therapist to do so.…”