“…Although conflicts occur broadly in a variety of situations, cultures, and countries, violent incidents are rare, as "violence breaks with ordinary reality" (Collins, 2008, p. 130). Even though everybody could use violence at any time (Eckert & Willems, 2002, p. 1475, actors have so many alternative options of action that they usually choose another action. Thus, violence is used by only a few people and only in rare situations (Collins, 2008, p. 14).…”