“…The waiting tubang custom is a custom regarding inheritance which is prioritized to the eldest daughter (Arifin, 2020;Darmaji, Astalini, et al, 2019;Velinda et al, 2018). But on the other hand, waiting for tubang is also interpreted as someone who is in charge of waiting for a large family gathering place with the agreement that this task is given to the eldest daughter (Ernawati, Asrial, Kurniawan, Nawahdani, et al, 2021;Septiana et al, 2016;Wulandari et al, 2021). The custom of waiting for tubang causes boys to have to apply the character of hard work in themselves (Kamid, Syaiful, et al, 2021;Maison et al, 2021;Rasyidin & Fitriani, 2021).…”