“…Ibrahim, 2004;Warsame, 2004;Cabdi, 2005). According to gender ideals, the husband should be the breadwinner and head of the family, and he should orient himself outside the household as the active, rhetorically and poetically skilled and strong decision-making agent, whereas women, on the contrary, should orient themselves inwards towards the household as the obedient and serving wife taking care of cleaning, washing, cooking and caring for the children (Kapteijns, 1995;Gardner and Bushra, 2004;Hansen, 2008). Despite the fact that these are ideals and as such constantly negotiated and rarely exist in practice (Kleist, 2008), it is fair to say that Somali society is heavily influenced by patriarchal values and principles (Ahmed, 1995).…”