The balance of costs and benefits is expected to drive facultative associations. Here, we assessed the costs of living in a facultative association, by studying the effect of red wood ants on different fitness correlates of the facultatively associated isopod Porcellio scaber.We demonstrated that P. scaber frequently occurs in and near hostile red wood ant nests and may even outnumber obligate nest associates. However, the facultative association involved different costs for the isopod. We found that the density of the isopod decreases near the nest with higher ant traffic. Individuals in and near the nest were smaller than individuals further away from the nest. Smaller individuals were also found at sites with higher ant traffic. In addition, a higher proportion of wounded individuals was found closer to the nest and with higher ant traffic. We recorded pregnant females and juveniles in the nest suggesting that the life cycle can be completed inside the nests. Lab experiments showed that females died sooner and invested less in reproduction in presence of red wood ants. Although P. scaber rarely provoked a strong aggression response, large numbers of the isopod were carried by the ants as prey to the nest. These preyed isopods were mainly dried out corpses.Our results showed that the ant association involves several costs for a facultative associate.Consequently, red wood ant nests and their surrounding territory may act as an alternative habitat where demographic costs are balanced with stable resource provisioning and protection against enemies.