The formation of a family that is sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah is a family that everyone who is married wants. The purpose of marriage and the implementation of the rights and obligations of husband and wife, because nowadays we see many marriages that do not last long. This prompted the author to write an article discussing how to build a sakinah-mawaddah-warahmah family following the Marriage Law and KHI. The writing method uses literature studies that take from existing books and writings. In this paper, there are efforts to form households, namely those contained in articles 30-34 of the UUP and articles 77 of the KHI and solutions to forming equal households. The solution is to maintain communication, and biological needs, maintain the appearance and manage the family economy.