“…The aim of mediation in the context of this region is to use the customs of humour, to persuade the parties to forgive and settle their dispute, rather than a facilitative tool for parties to discuss and resolve their disputes, as is the case in ADR. Mediators often remind the parties of the interpersonal ties that they, as mediators, may share with the disputants, including family, historic, religious and ancestral ties (Smith, 2004). Where there is no direct kinship, mediators rely on ethnic, communal and friendship ties to create the kinship.…”