“…Consider two of the most critical tasks of young adulthood: (a) finding "emotional middle ground" by differentiating from one's family of origin while simultaneously remaining connected (i.e., avoiding emotional "cut-offs ~) and (b) forming intimate and differentiated peer relationships (Bowen, 1978;Carter & McGoldrick, 1989;Williamson, 1981). In regard to the first goal, researchers often measure young adults' ability to separate from parents without simultaneously assessing the degree of emotional connectedness (e.g., Aquilino, 1990;Grossman, Shea, & Adams, 1980;Moore & Hotch, 1982; and vice versa (e.g., Boyd, Nunn, & Parish, 1983;Fine, Moreland, & Schwebel, 1983;Fine, Worley, & Schwebel, 1986;Kennedy, 1985;Parish, 1981;Parish & Wigle, 1985;Rozendal, 1983;Weiss, 1988;White, 1992). Similarly, in regard to the development of intimate peer relationships, investigators frequently only assess the amount rather than the quality of the peer relationships (e.g., Booth et al, 1984;Hepworth, Ryder, & Dreyer, 1984;Hogan & Kitagawa, 1985;Kalter, 1977Kalter, , 1984Hetherington & Parke, 1979;McLanahan & Bumpass, 1988).…”