In this paper we explore a self-regulatory perspective on the self-evaluative moral emotions, shame and guilt. Broadly conceived, self-regulation distinguishes between two types of motivation: approach/activation and avoidance/inhibition. We use this distinction to conceptually understand the socialization dimensions (parental restrictiveness versus nurturance), associated emotions (anxiety versus empathy), and forms of morality (proscriptive versus prescriptive) that serve as precursors to each self-evaluative moral emotion. We then examine the components of shame and guilt experiences in greater detail and conclude with more general implications of a self-regulatory perspective on moral emotions. keywords: moral emotions, self-regulation, shame, guilt, parenting styles
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Tracing the Self-Regulatory Bases of Moral EmotionsUntil recently, morality was thought to entail moral reasoning that emotions only served to undermine (Kohlberg, 1984;Piaget, 1951). Emotions similarly were regarded as "hot" feelings to be contrasted against "cold" cognitions, and emotion and morality were thus discrete areas of investigation in psychology. Interestingly, as psychologists increasingly began to understand emotions as inherently cognitive (e.g., Lazarus, 1991;Russell, 2003), morality too began to be viewed as inextricably tied to emotions (e.g., Haidt, 2001Haidt, , 2007Rozin, Lowery, Imada, & Haidt, 1999). We now view moral experience as comprising not only a list of rules and ideals, but also strong emotions that serve as moral regulators of our self-evaluations and actions.Self-regulation describes purposive (but often not self-controlled) processes motivated by some internal object or goal (Carver & Scheier, 2008). It is a perspective that can incorporate both emotions and cognitions and suggests a "syndrome" (Averill, 1982) of connected appraisals, phenomenal experiences, and action tendencies. As such, self-regulation may aid in linking emotional experiences and moral rules, and in particular the interplay between the two.Classic social psychological theory has understood morality as "an internalized representation of normative standards" that are embedded in and derived from social interaction (Baldwin, 1906;Mead, 1934;Newcomb, 1950). Our experiences of moral emotions represent the ethics, ideals, and obligations inherent in being a member of society; and these are believed to be binding on the self (see Feldman, 2006). To understand the nature of this "binding," we need to recognize the centrality of the community to the individual-our nature as social beings and our need to belong Self-Regulation and Moral Emotions 4 (Baumeister & Leary, 1995;Mead, 1934). The development of self-regulation in the moral context fundamentally depends on our interactions as social beings and our need to maintain social relationships.In this paper we explore a self-regulatory perspective on morality and its relevance for the primary self-evaluative moral emotions, shame and guilt. We turn first...