“…First, research in marital interaction indicates that couples' argument: behavior affects and/or reflects their relationships, although conflict and argument are not isomorphic behaviors (Canary & Sillars, 1992). For example, satisfied (vs. dissatisfied) couples have been more likely to (a) discuss areas of disagreement instead of avoiding them (Gottman, 1979); (b) focus on the conversational task and use rational dialogue instead of spousal criticism (Krueger, 1983;Ryder & Goodrich, 1966); (c) be verbally responsive to the partner's comments (Koren, Carlton, & Shaw, 1980); and (d) engage in fewer reciprocations of negative affect, such as attack-defend patterns and countercomplaints (Alberts, 1988;Gottman, 1979;Ting-Toomey, 1983).…”