“…As a result, research shows that stressful situations that are appraised as threats to self-esteem tend to be associated with a reduced likelihood of seeking and receiving social support, including aid, informational and emotional support (Dunkel-Schetter, Folkman, & Lazarus, 1987;Folkman, Lazarus, Dunkel-Schetter, DeLongis & Gruen, 1986). It is when people do not perceive themselves as responsible for the problem, and so do not blame themselves for their predicament, that they seem to be most likely to seek social support (Karuza, Zevon, Gleason, Karuza, & Nash, 1990). …”