“…Yet we already know that the notion of the nation state is shifting, and hierarchical ways of leadership are flattening. Marriage equality, as cogently advocated by Lothstein (2015) in the context of treatment of domestic violence, while representing a major step towards human justice, also means the metaphor of pairing needs to be rethought and expanded. While there is much made, for example, by Rice, of fight, flight, and freeze responses, there is little attention to emergent work in the consciousness literature about its healing alternative: flow states that invite stillness and reflective action in the face of conflict and confrontation (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990;Jackson, Thomas, Marsh, & Smethurst, 2001;Privette, 1983).…”