“…SDT suggests turning to social contexts to understand how a suffering person’s needs for competence, autonomy, and relatedness has been thwarted (Ryan & Deci, 2000). It is important to note that social contexts such as family and school constitute an ongoing dependency relationship in which the adolescent is less autonomous than an adult, a systemic variable that needs especial attention in adolescent therapies (Grehan & Freeman, 2009). We concur with this point, and also suggest that empirical research such as this study, together with clinical research on for example therapeutic presence (Geller & Greenberg, 2012), theoretical formulations from the relational tradition in psychoanalysis (Benjamin, 2004), and research on dyadic processes in the caregiver–infant relationship (Beebe & Lachmann, 2002), contribute to clinical understanding by detailing interpersonal processes pertaining to the issues of authenticity, relational togetherness and difference, and recognition, in relationships aimed to help such suffering.…”