“…Ethnographies that aim to understand duress should include information about our relationship with our interlocutors, as "social life is lived at the interface of self and other" (1998: 35). In other words, within the context of a wider ethnography, the feelings of our interlocutors and of ourselves are a window to understanding what factors play a role in the duress of a society: whether it is exposure to violent conflict, or harshness of a less obvious impact such as ordinary social violence embedded in the particular history of an individual and/or society (Bouju and de Bruijn 2014). We must therefore make silences, gasps, anger, laughter, frustration, sadness, fear, worry, and so on integral parts of our observations, interviews, and ethnographies, and we should not avoid the interpretation of these out of a fear of being overtly subjective.…”