Pendidikan Kristen dalam Pelayanan Konseling Pranikah di Era Disrupsi

Abstract

The era of disruption encourages all humans to adapt to the changes that occur. Christian youth and Christian families are required to be able to withstand these changes by living in the firmness of the Christian faith, according to God's will. Christian education in premarital counseling is very important in this era because through it Christian families will be able to survive in an increasingly uncertain world. This research method is descriptive qualitative, with literature study and observation techniques. The author uses the Bible and various relevant literature. The purpose of this study is to provide a description of how Christian education can form premarital counseling that can guide Christian families in this era. The results of the study conclude that it is necessary to transform premarital counseling from just a church service program to Christian education to provide a new form. Christian education in pre-marital counseling is developed to post-marital counseling, which is carried out continuously throughout life according to the principles of Christian education. The implementation of Christian education in pre-marital counseling is as follows: First, the teaching materials emphasize the development of the personal dimension as a creation that is in the image and likeness of God and the relational dimension, building a relationship that is holy and pleasing to God. Second, the implementation of Christian education in premarital counseling includes six stages: First, the preparation of young people to find a life partner. Two, at a time when a future husband and wife decided to start a new family. Three, the young family stage. Four, pre-adolescent and adolescent family stages. Five, the family stage of adulthood, when the children in the family have started to grow up. Six, the stages of old age. Third, forming counselors as guides and guides who fear God, living the truth of God's word so that they can become examples of life.

Edukasi Teologis tentang Pernikahan Dini dalam Gereja

“…Maka, dibutuhkan pendidikan Kristen dalam konseling pranikah, khususnya dalam konteks era disrupsi. 28…”

Pelayanan Pastoral Konseling terhadap Suami atau Istri yang Mengalami krisis Rohani akibat Kematian

“…Dimana fungsi pendampingan pastoral dapat membantu orang yang berduka untuk bisa menerima kenyaatan yang terjadi atas dirinya, dapat mengungkapkan perasaan duka yang ada dalam dirinya sehingga tidak berakibat fatal. Pendampingan pastoral dalam kedukaan kematian pasangan merupakan bukti kepedulian dan dukungan gereja terhadap keluarga-keluarga agar iman tetap terus terjaga (Anjaya et al 2022). Hal tersebut penting karena dapat membantu untuk bangkit dari keterpurukan, kembali bisa menjalin relasi yang baik bagi orang lain, lepas dari tekanan batin, dan bisa menjadi pribadi yang baru serta menjalankan funsinya seperti semula.…”

“…Dalam keadaan yang seperti ini diperlukan orang lain untuk menolong dalam mengelola dan menanggulangi keadaan krisis tersebut melalui pendekatan pendampingan pastoral yang merupakan salah satu metode yang dapat dilakukan untuk menolong seseorang yang mengalami krisis. (Anjaya, Fernando, and Rini 2022) Oleh karena itu, konselor Kristen dan hamba Tuhan sangat diperlukan dalam melakukan pendampingan pastoral sebagai salah satu bagian dari penggembalaan terhadap jemaat Tuhan yang sedang mengalami krisis. Hal inilah yang mendorong penulis untuk mengkaji pelayanan pastoral konseling terhadap istri yang mengalami krisis spritual akibat kematian suami secara tiba-tiba melalui penggunaan metode kualitatif, peneliti bermaksud mengkaji secara mendalam suatu permasalahan secara kasus perkasus atau secara holistik dengan menggunakan teknik analisis mendalam guna dapat mendeskripsika masalah tersebut melalui tulisan ilmiah yang nantinya bermuarah pada sumbangsih bagi para Konselor Kristen maupu Hamba Tuhan.…”

The Role of Song in Developing the Attitude of Responsibility of the Church in the Era of Disruption

“…In the era of the technological revolution 4.0, humans interact without distance in space and time [1] Etnasari Anjaya said that the era of disruption has encouraged all human beings to adapt to the changes that occur, so Christian youth and Christian families are required to be able to survive life's changes by remaining firm in the Christian faith, according to God's will [2]. Eliasaputra said that in the Industrial Revolution 4.0 Era there were many positive opportunities to improve human life, therefore Christians must be open to responding to them.…”