2018
DOI: 10.31234/osf.io/67ne8
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Polite speech emerges from competing social goals

Abstract: Language is a remarkably efficient tool for transmitting information. Yet human speakers make statements that are inefficient, imprecise, or even contrary to their own beliefs, all in the service of being polite. What rational machinery underlies polite language use? Here, we show that polite speech emerges from the competition of three communicative goals: to convey information, to be kind, and to present oneself in a good light. We formalize this goal tradeoff using a probabilistic model of utterance product… Show more

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“…Covert signaling may therefore be part of what enables a healthy diverse, cosmopolitan society. In this respect, covert signaling bears a similarity to norms of politeness in that it may enable interactions between people who disagree on important issues by proscribing some overt utterances that would impede coordination or even foment conflict (Clark and Schunk, 1980;Yoon et al, 2018). If covert signaling is favored when costs of being disliked are high and the ability to assort on identity is weak, what happens when these factors change?…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
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“…Covert signaling may therefore be part of what enables a healthy diverse, cosmopolitan society. In this respect, covert signaling bears a similarity to norms of politeness in that it may enable interactions between people who disagree on important issues by proscribing some overt utterances that would impede coordination or even foment conflict (Clark and Schunk, 1980;Yoon et al, 2018). If covert signaling is favored when costs of being disliked are high and the ability to assort on identity is weak, what happens when these factors change?…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Indirect speech can yield plausible deniability of intent when suggestions are rejected (Lee and Pinker, 2010). Ambiguous or vague speech allows for multiple interpretations by different receivers, maximizing apparent agreement and minimizing confident disagreement (Eisenberg, 1984;Aragones and Neeman, 2000;Yoon et al, 2018). Previous discussions of intentionally unclear communication are related to the present discussion, but these generally assume either a single receiver or that signals reflect particular static facts about the state of the world.…”
Section: Introductionmentioning
confidence: 95%
“…The rational integration model is derived from a more general framework for pragmatic inference, which has been used to explain a wide variety of phenomena in adults' language use and comprehension. 37,38,[59][60][61][62] Thus, it can be generalized in a natural way to capture word learning in contexts that offer more, fewer, or different types of information.…”
Section: Discussionmentioning
confidence: 99%
“…Speakers choose signals relative to the probability that the chosen signal will be interpreted correctly (taking the listener's perspective), and listeners infer meaning relative to the probability that a speaker would have produced the observed signal given that meaning (taking the speaker's perspective). RSA has been successfully used to explain language games (Frank & Goodman, 2012;Frank et al, 2017;Khani, Goodman, & Liang, 2018), implicatures (Goodman & Stuhlmüller, 2013;Bergen, Levy, & Goodman, 2016), noisy signals (Bergen & Goodman, 2015), polite speech (Yoon, Frank, Tessler, & Goodman, 2018), and convention formation (Hawkins et al, 2017;Cohn-Gordon, Goodman, & Potts, 2018;Hawkins, Frank, & Goodman, 2020).…”
Section: Computational Modelsmentioning
confidence: 99%