Summary:We inquired reasons for concealment/disclosure of the history of epilepsy during marriage negotiations and marriage outcomes of 82 consecutive women attending a tertiary referral center based epilepsy clinic in Kerala, southern India. At the time of marriage, 55% concealed and 45% disclosed the history of epilepsy. Majority of those who concealed admitted that they did so fearing breakup of marriage negotiations, and majority of those who disclosed did so to forestall the consequences after marriage of concealing. Compared to those who disclosed, the prevalence of divorce, separation and disturbed marriages were significantly higher among those who concealed. Honest prospective communication during marriage negotiations about epilepsy is important for preserving subsequent married life. Key Words: Concealment-DisclosureEpilepsy-India-Marriage.The psychosocial consequences of the stigma potentials of epilepsy are nowhere more evident than in the case of women with epilepsy of the marriageable age in a developing country. Unlike in western culture, in most Asian countries, it is the responsibility of the parents to find a suitable match for their daughter and arrange her marriage (Huang, 2005). Parents of a woman with epilepsy often get her married, without informing the spouse and family of the disease (Kleinman et al., 1995;Agarwal et al., 2006). Seizure exacerbation often occurs soon after marriage due to noncompliance to medication. Divorce ensues when the presence of epilepsy becomes evident (Kleinman et al., 1995;Wada et al., 2004;Agarwal et al., 2006).In India, and perhaps in other developing countries too, one of the most frequently asked questions by the parents of a woman of marriageable age during medical consultation is whether they should reveal or conceal the history of epilepsy during marriage negotiations. Some of them would mention that the disclosures had resulted in several broken negotiations. Despite its enormous medical and social implications, little information is available to guide the clinician to answer this question. Through a questionnaire survey, we investigated the prevalence of concealment/disclosure of the history of epilepsy and its consequences on the married life of women with epilepsy in Kerala, southern India.
SUBJECTS AND METHODSWe recruited 82 consecutive married women attending the epilepsy clinic of the Sree Chitra Tirunal Institute for Medical Sciences and Technology, Trivandrum, Kerala, who had active epilepsy for 5 years or more prior to and after marriage. We excluded patients with concomitant physical handicap, intellectual impairment, psychiatric disturbances, or pseudoseizures. We defined active epilepsy if the woman had at least two epileptic seizures per year during the previous 10 years, regardless of the antiepileptic drug treatment status. The survey questionnaire inquired demographic and clinical features and contained 10 close-ended questions related to the subject of this study (Table 1). We used mean, median, standard deviation, and percentages to s...