“…As we turned to the research of others, we noted reciprocity was most frequently seen as something transactional, a kind of interaction between researcher and participants that forefronted issues of power and obligations ( Tubaro, 2021 ; von Vacano, 2019 ). We observed that reciprocity is often framed as “user/patient involvement,” “participant/community engagement,” “‘paying’ for people’s time,” or as “giving voice.” We wondered about our lack of attention to developing a more explicit concept of reciprocity in narrative inquiry, with attention to the importance of engaging in the relational through coming alongside participants with an openness to uncertainty ( Dewey, 1929 ), to be perplexed ( Addams, 1902 ), to be astonished ( Minnich, 2014 ), and to change ( Connelly & Clandinin, 1990 ).…”