“…Moreover, the nature of the divorce process implies important effects on each of the above mentioned aspects simultaneously and at high intensity for a brief period of time (9 to 18 months). Consequently for women, divorce often implies the feeling of anxiety, helplessness, aggression, sadness, guilt, regret, shame, lack of self-esteem, emptiness, loneliness, and uncertainty about the outcome of divorce proceedings (Mendoza et al, 2019). In such a state of vulnerability, social judgement (especially strong in women with children) often converges with the divorce-seeking women's self-judgement, which leads into an internal battle of two contradictory thoughts of success, "I will become an independent human and be free" vs. failure, "I have not been able to continue my marriage and I'm responsible for it" (Gerstel, 1987).…”