Given partitions α, β, γ, the short exact sequences 0 −→ Nα −→ N β −→ Nγ −→ 0 of nilpotent linear operators of Jordan types α, β, γ, respectively, define a constructible subset V β α,γ of an affine variety. Geometrically, the varieties V β α,γ are of particular interest as they occur naturally and since they typically consist of several irreducible components. In fact, each Littlewood-Richardson tableau Γ of shape (α, β, γ) contributes one irreducible component V Γ . We consider the partial order Γ ≤ boundary Γ on LR-tableaux which is the transitive closure of the relation given by V Γ ∩ V Γ = ∅. In this paper we compare the boundary relation with partial orders given by algebraic, combinatorial and geometric conditions. It is known that in the case where the parts of α are at most two, all those partial orders are equivalent. We prove that those partial orders are also equivalent in the case where β \ γ is a horizontal and vertical strip. Moreover, we discuss how the orders differ in general.MSC 2010: 14L30, 16G20, 47A15.