A computational investigation of the intermolecular hydrophosphination of styrene and 2-vinylpyridine, catalysed by the heteroleptic b-diketiminato-stabilised calcium complex [(PhNC(Me)CHC(Me)NPh)CaPPh2], is presented. Alkene insertion does not proceed via the traditional route as proposed by experimental and theoretical research related to intermolecular hydroamination catalysed by alkaline earth or lanthanide complexes. In contrast, for the hydrophosphination mechanism, insertion proceeds via an outer sphere, conjugative addition where there is no direct interaction of Ca with the vinyl functionality. Following the initial rate determining alkene insertion, two distinct mechanisms emerge, protonolysis or polymerisation. Polymerisation of styrene is energetically less favourable than protonolysis whereas the reverse is determined for 2-vinylpyridine, thereby providing strong evidence for outcomes observed experimentally. The vinylarene ring is important as it allows for preferential coordination of the unsaturated substrate through numerous non-covalent Ca···π, CH···π and CaE (E=P, N) interactions, moreover the vinylarene ring counteracts unfavourable charge localisation within the activated transition state. The additional stability of the CaN over CaP dative interaction in vinylpyridine provides a rationalisation for the experimentally observed enhanced reactivity of vinylpyridine, particularly in the context of the almost identical local alkene insertion barriers. Previously, little emphasis has been placed on the involvement of non-covalent interactions however, our calculations reveal that Ca···π, CH···π and Cadonor interactions are critical; stabilising key intermediates and transition states, while also introducing numerous competitive pathways.