Clergy spouses experience various life stressors, yet many cope and function effectively in the midst of their daily challenges. Mental health professionals were asked to identify wives of male clergy who exemplify emotional and spiritual health. Nominees were contacted and interviews conducted with 25 women. Each interviewee was asked about coping with normal life stressors, stressors associated with being married to a minister, and catastrophic life events. All interviews were transcribed and coded, using grounded theory. Participants emphasized the importance of spirituality, social support, limit-setting, and healthy lifestyle choices. Implications are discussed.Today's trend toward a more positive psychology has heightened psychologists' awareness of human strength, potential, and resilience. Some of the constructs within positive psychology can be described and experienced without assuming any contrasting negative experience. For example, people can experience gratitude, optimism, wisdom, hope, creativity, and self-esteem whether or not their lives are relatively free of troubles. Other constructs in the burgeoning positive psychology literature are implicitly coupled with life's challenges and difficulties. For example, forgiveness requires that some sort of distressing offense has first occurred. Similarly, problem-solving abilities presume that there is a problem to be solved. Moreover, positive coping can only be understood when considered alongside the struggles, challenges, and stresses of life. Thus, research on the positive psychology of coping (Schwarzer and Knoll 2003) also requires some awareness of issues such as stress, loss, and conflict.Clergy and clergy families provide an intriguing population for coping research because they face a good deal of stress on a daily basis (