The World Health Organization recommends assessing compliance with key clinical practices of the Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative (BFHI; Steps 3–9) using birthing women’s self-reports. Globally, compliance is mainly assessed using health staff reports, and the use of women’s self-reports in selected countries has deviated from the Global Standards for the BFHI. Therefore, we aimed to provide insight into the appropriate method of incorporating women’s self-reports in assessing compliance with Steps 3–9 of the BFHI. We developed questions and coding algorithms for assessing compliance with Steps 3–9 based on Global Standards for BFHI compliance, and implemented them via a cross-sectional survey of 302 women who gave birth to a live baby in Sri Lankan hospitals. Compliance with specific practices within each of Steps 3–9 and overall compliance with each step were described as percentages. Compliance with specific practices and each BFHI Step ranged from 15.9%–100% and 7.0%–100%, respectively. Our findings particularly emphasize the potentially enhanced usefulness and robustness of assessing all specific practices within BFHI key clinical steps and not focusing only on one practice within a step, to derive more useful health service guidance globally for capturing BFHI compliance and its impact on breastfeeding outcomes. This method could be translated across multiple settings globally. It would enable more specific identification of care advancements required by health services to improve the effectiveness of breastfeeding support and address the prevailing undervaluing and under-use of women’s experiential data to evaluate and guide health service improvement.