Some Indonesian people consider that gay is not in accordance with religious, cultural, and deviant norms. Because sexual behavior like this has not been applied in general and can be accepted by society. Not all gays are brave and able to do selfdisclosure (coming out). Individuals who realize themselves as a kind of lover need a long time to identify, confirm, and accept their sexual orientation. Having been able to identify himself as a gay, usually individuals will begin to consider covering up or telling others about this identity. The challenge when a gay person has ventured to come out, he must face a number of questions about the family or the surrounding community, which is certainly prone to cause conflict, both internal and internal. Gay coming out and not fully coming out in Jakarta presents themselves as an effort to grow a certain impression in front of others through the dramaturgy of the front stage and the back stage, by arranging behavior so that other people interpret their identity according to what they want. The aim of the research was to find out the dramaturgy process and model in presenting themselves on the front stage and the gay back stage coming out and gay not fully coming out in Jakarta. The research method uses an interpretive paradigm with a subjective approach, with a type of qualitative research. Data collection techniques using indepth interviews, observation, Focus Group Discussion (FGD), and document review. Data analysis techniques apply interactive models of Miles Huberman. The results showed that Jakarta's gay self-presentation on the front stage that had been fully coming out would do self-promotion tactics and even exaggerate. But in gays who are not fully coming out, they will disclaimer by trying to deny and hide their identity as gay. But on the back stage, gays who have been or have not been fully coming out, both carry out a self-promotion strategy as a technique of presenting themselves by opening themselves, especially in the gay community. Gay openness coming out on family, community, and society is preceded by the coming in process, namely the acceptance of himself as gay. The research recommendation is the strengthening of religion and the relationship between family members who are humanist, harmonious, and close / familiar to be a solution so that the nation's generation is not trapped in the LGBT luster.

ABSTRAKKeunikan kaum gay karena orientasi seksual mereka yang berbeda dengan masyarakat hetero di Indonesia sulit mendapat dukungan dari berbagai pihak, karena kiblat budaya timur sangat memegang teguh nilai-nilai agama, norma, moral, dan adat istiadat. Tujuan penelitian adalah untuk : 1) mengetahui presentasi diri gay coming out dan not fully coming out di Jakarta; 2) mengetahui model dan pola komunikasi dramaturgi gay coming out dan not fully coming out di Jakarta; 3) mengetahui proses dramaturgi dalam mempresentasikan diri pada panggung depan (front stage) dan panggung belakang (back stage) gay coming out dan not fully coming out di Jakarta. Metode penelitian menggunakan paradigma interpretif dengan pendekatan subyektif, dengan jenis penelitian kualitatif. Teknik pengumpulan data menggunakan wawancara mendalam, observasi, Focuss Group Disscussion (FGD), dan telaah dokumen. Teknik analisis data mengaplikasikan model interaktif Miles Huberman. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa presentasi diri gay Jakarta pada panggung depan (front stage) yang telah sepenuhnya coming out akan melakukan taktik promosi diri bahkan melebih-lebihkan. Namun pada gay yang belum sepenuhnya coming out akan melakukan disclaimer dengan berusaha menyangkal dan menyembunyikan identitas dirinya sebagai gay. Namun pada panggung belakang (back stage), gay yang telah maupun belum sepenuhnya coming out, sama-sama melakukan strategi self promotion sebagai teknik presentasi diri mereka dengan cara membuka diri, terutama di komunitas gay. Rekomedasi adalah penguatan agama dan hubungan antar anggota keluarga yang humanis, harmonis, serta akrab menjadi solusi agar generasi bangsa tak terperangkap dalam kilau LGBT.Kata kunci: Dramaturgi, Presentasi diri, Gay coming out, Gay not fully coming out ABSTRACTThe uniqueness of gays because of their sexual orientation that is different from hetero society in Indonesia is difficult to get support from various parties, because the eastern cultural mecca strongly adheres to religious values, norms, morals, and customs. The research objectives were to: 1) know gay self presentations coming out and not fully coming out in Jakarta; 2) knowing the gay dramaturgy communication models and patterns coming out and not fully coming out in Jakarta; 3) knowing the process of dramaturgy in presenting themselves on the front stage and the back stage of gay coming out and not fully coming out in Jakarta. The research method uses an interpretive paradigm with a subjective approach, with a type of qualitative research. Data collection techniques used in-depth interviews, observations, Focuss Group Disscussion (FGD), and document review. The data analysis technique applied the Miles Huberman interactive model. The results of the study show that Jakarta's gay self presentation on the front stage which has fully come out will carry out self-promotion tactics and even exaggerate. But for gays who have not fully come out, they will make a disclaimer by trying Volume 1, Desember 2018 Prosiding Kolokium Doktor dan Seminar Hasil Peneli...