Lewis acidic (BDI)Ae + cations of the heavier metals Sr and Ba, which are not stabilized by polar solvents, have been obtained by double deprotonation of ( BDI)H 2 + with either SrN'' 2 or BaN'' 2 ; BDI = HC[C(Me)N(DIPP)] 2 , DIPP = 2,6-diisopropylphenyl, Ae = alkaline earth, N'' = N(SiMe 3 ) 2 . Due to clathrate formation [(BDI)Ae + ][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ] could not be crystallized, but pyrene addition gave crystalline [(BDI)Ae + • pyrene][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ] which was structurally characterized for Ae = Mg, Ca, Sr, Ba. (R 2 N)Ae + cations of the heavier metals Sr and Ba were obtained by reaction of Ae(NR 2 ) 2 with [Ph 3 C + ][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ] or [PhNMe 2 H + ] [B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ]. Following complexes were structurally characterized: [N''Ba + • (tol) 2 ][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ], [N*Sr + • PhNMe 2 ][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ], [N*Ba + • tol] [B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ] and [N*Ba + • C 6 H 6 ][B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À ]; tol = toluene and N* = N(SiiPr 3 ) 2 . DFT calculations show that Sr•••PhNMe 2 coordination is preferred over Sr•••toluene bonding. The (R 2 N)Ae + cations can be used as Brønsted bases (reaction with (BDI)H gave (BDI)Ae + ) and may be useful precursors for a variety of Lewis base-free RAe + cations. DFT calculations, limited to monomeric model systems including B(C 6 F 5 ) 4 À(ωB97XD/def2tzvpp//ωB97XD/ def2svp), show that there is negligible electron transfer from the pyrene or toluene ligands to the Ae 2 + cation. Electrostatic attraction originates from charge-induced polarization of the p-electron density in the toluene and pyrene ligands.