Self-forgiveness is related to positive connections with self and others and may be particularly important for clients who have hurt others. Relational hurt is heightened within the most intimate relationships and is particularly salient in cases of romantic relationship infidelity. Therefore, self-forgiveness may be indicated for romantic partners who have engaged in infidelity. This evidence-based case study examines the treatment of a Caucasian woman in her early 50s who presented with self-unforgiveness following marital infidelity. An 8-week manualized individual counseling program for self-forgiveness was used, which incorporates emotion-focused therapy techniques and principles of positive psychology to facilitate clients' engagement with a 4-component therapeutic model of self-forgiveness-responsibility, remorse, restoration, and renewal. This evidence-based case study demonstrated the importance of emotion-focused techniques in the client's emotional recovery, as well as the ways in which the intervention served as a eudaimonic process that resulted in the client's personal and relational well-being.
Clinical Impact StatementQuestion: What are the relevant emotion-focused and self-forgiving processes in psychotherapy for a client who engaged in romantic relationship infidelity? Findings: Emotion-focused exercises helped the client resolve negative self-critical emotions and achieve emotional resolution through the self-forgiveness steps of exploring responsibility, expressing remorse, engaging in restoration efforts, and facilitating emotional renewal. Meaning: Emotional well-being following relational infidelity can be achieved through a self-forgiveness process that encourages exploration of difficult emotions and that includes efforts to engage in relational repair. Next Steps: Additional research should be conducted on how to promote personal and relational resilience following infidelity.