Identifikasi Faktor Penyebab Perceraian Sebagai Dasar Konsep Pendidikan Pranikah di Kabupaten Banyuwangi

Abstract

Divorcement rate in Banyuwangi district is the second rank in East Java province below Surabaya and third rank in national scale below Indramayu and Surabaya. In 2014, there are 7.106 cases that involve 6.798 couples. This research is aimed to identify the factors that cause divorce high rate in Banyuwangi district. This research uses a qualitative approach with a case study design that using a phenomenological perspective. Purposive sampling method was used and the samples in this research were 40 widows and widowers from 4 sub-districts in Banyuwangi with the highest divorce cases. Data was analyzed with qualitative descriptive analysis.The results shows that divorce was be caused by internal and external factors. Internal factors, namely economy (37,5 percent), responsibility (15 percent), and harmony (17,5 percent). Whereas external factors are infidelity (30 percent). The result of this study will be a recommendation in formulating a prenuptial education learning model based on family and school approaches in Banyuwangi district.

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“…Sebab, pada dasarnya pernikahan merupakan penyatuan dua insan yang berbeda, baik perbedaan dalam lingkup kecil; seperti perbedaan sikap, mental, dan perilaku, sampai perbedaan besar yang dapat memicu sebuah perpisahan atau perceraian. (Databoks 2020;Harjianto and Jannah 2019;Maimun, Toha, and Arifin 2019). KH.…”

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The Role of Mosque-Based Non-Formal Islamic Education in Building Sakinah Families

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“…The implementers of the sakinah family movement include (Advisory Board for Marriage Development and Preservation (BP-4), ustadz, kyai, khatib, takmir, Islamic boarding schools, madrasas and NGOs with religious backgrounds and other community groups (Ikhwan, Fahriana, Fahruddin, & Jaelani, 2019). family movement, article 12 includes; (a) religious education in the family; (2) religious education in the community through sakinah family groups, recitation groups, taklim groups, wirid groups; (3) improvement of religious education through formal education; (4) economic empowerment of the people; (5) family nutrition development; (6) family health development (7) environmental sanitation; (8) prevention of sexually transmitted diseases and HIV/AIDS. The eight sakinah family development programs have general and specific goals, namely: 1).…”