Konflik Sosial Menantu Yang Tinggal Serumah Dengan Mertua (Studi Kasus Di Desa Lempang Kecamatan Tanete Riaja Kabupaten Barru)

M, Rahmah; Quraisy, Hidayah; Risfaisal, Risfaisal

doi:10.26618/equilibrium.v7i2.2626

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“…Padahal setiap individu harus belajar dan membiasakan diri untuk mencapai kesejahteraan itu. Kebanyakan permasalahan individu dipacu dengan perasaan yang kurang nyaman dan tidak dapat mengendalikan emosinya sehingga akan mempengaruhi kesejahteraannya (Rahmah, 2019).…”

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Mewujudkan Keluarga Harmonis Melalui Pengelolaan Konflik Mertua Dan Menantu

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Sofyan

2021

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Faktor penyebab konflik antara menantu perempuan dan ibu mertua antara lain: faktor pekerjaan rumah tangga, faktor ekonomi, faktor perbedaan pola pikir, faktor perbedaan pola asuh anak, faktor salah paham dan komunikasi, perbedaan kepentingan yang disertai dominasi atau paksaan oleh ibu mertua terhadap menantu perempuan. Dampak konflik yang terjadi antara menantu perempuan dan ibu mertua membuat suasana rumah tidak nyaman. Tim abdimas telah melakukan pengabdian masyarakat yang bertujuan untuk mengantisipasi terjadinya konflik pada mertua dan menantu. Abdimas dilakukan dengan mitra ibu-ibu anggota PKK desa Karasan, Kenaiban, Juwiring, Klaten. Berdasarkan hasil observasi dan wawancara yang dilakukan oleh Tim, beberapa permasalahan yang dihadapi oleh mitra terkait konflik mertua menantu, yaitu: minimnya pengetahuan relasi mertua menantu, belum memahami tentang penyelesaian konflik yang tepat dalam pasangan ibu mertua dan menantu perempuan, belum memiliki alat peraga keluarga harmonis berupa poster dan modul pembelajaran. Adapun tahapan kegiatan yang telah dilakukan, antara lain: pertama, peningkatan pengetahuan melalui penyuluhan dengan tema birul walidain atau berbakti pada orang tua. Kedua, pemutaran film dan diskusi. Ketiga, penyuluhan tentang pentingnya keterbukaan dan mengelola konflik pada pasangan mertua dan menantu. Keempat, pembuatan poster dan modul unik untuk mengkampanyekan pentingnya keluarga harmonis. Kelima, pembentukan komunitas Gerakan Sayang Mertua (GSM). Selain tahapan kegiatan tersebut, pengabdian ini direncanakan menghasilkan keluaran (ouput) berupa publikasi di Jurnal yang memiliki ISSN, publikasi di repocitory perguruan tinggi, dan publikasi di media massa, serta publikasi melalui channel youtube.

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Mewujudkan Keluarga Harmonis Melalui Pengelolaan Konflik Mertua Dan Menantu

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Sofyan

2021

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“…So, welfare does not appear automatically in each individual. It is only the individual problem that is still unable to control emotions properly, which is triggered by feelings of discomfort, affecting his assumptions regarding welfare (Rahmah, 2019). In the daughter-in-law's eyes, the mother-in-law often makes her sad and uncomfortable by being dominant because she knows everything about her son or is too worried, which is against her will who wants to live her household independently, wants to learn and enjoy how it feels-married without interference from anyone, including their parents.…”

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A Critical Discourse Analysis of Ustadz Khalid Basalamah’s Lecture Fragment on Youtube About “Durhaka Kepada Orang Tua Karena Istri”

2021

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<p><em>Religious lecture nowadays can be found not only by joining Tablighi Jamaat in the mosque but also by searching the desired religious lecture theme on Youtube which is delivered by desired ustadz. Even though sometimes the content of the lectures found on Youtube are not in their fully version. But still, the messages still can be received. The theme about wife as the cause of disobedient to parents still become a crucial and popular theme to be delivered by ustadz nowadays. This phenomenon can be related to the nature of woman as a wife that mostly found difficulty adapting to their spouse family because her nature to be dominantly self-controlled by feelings. This study aims to critically analysis the discourse of Ustadz Khalid Basalamah Lecture fragment found in Youtube about wife as the cause of disobedient to parents. This study was conducted by analyzing three aspects of Fairclough’s Critical Discourse Analysis Method, namely textual analysis (microstructural analysis), discursive practice analysis (mesostructural analysis), and socio-cultural analysis (macrostructural analysis). The study found that the discourse are (1) using forbidding words repeteadly to show reinforcement of the messages, (2) distributing messages delivered by Ustadz Khalid Basalamah who is believed in having ‘power’ to deliver religious lecture to moeslim as the consumer by his way that is by persuading the audience to think logically, (3) having an important messages to be delivered in building a harmonious family and so harmonious future society</em>.</p>

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“…Munculnya konflik sosial dapat dipicu oleh beberapa faktor. Sebagai contoh, menurut (Rahmah et al, 2019) dalam jurnalnya mengatakan bahwa menantu dan mertua yang tinggal dalam satu tempat tinggal yang sama dapat memunculkan suatu konflik. Faktor-faktor penyebabnya adalah mertua sering ikut campur, mertua yang kerap membandingkan menantu, dan menikah tanpa restu orang tua (Rahmah et al, 2019).…”

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“…Sebagai contoh, menurut (Rahmah et al, 2019) dalam jurnalnya mengatakan bahwa menantu dan mertua yang tinggal dalam satu tempat tinggal yang sama dapat memunculkan suatu konflik. Faktor-faktor penyebabnya adalah mertua sering ikut campur, mertua yang kerap membandingkan menantu, dan menikah tanpa restu orang tua (Rahmah et al, 2019). Melalui pemaparan tersebut dapat dikatakan bahwa tinggal bersama dengan mertua apalagi untuk menantu perempuan dapat menimbulkan perasaan tidak nyaman bagi seseorang.…”

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Rusunawa dan Sandwich Generation: Resiliensi Masa Pandemi di Ruang Perkotaan

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Anwar

2021

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This study aims to analyze resilience from sandwich generation during the pandemics concerning the needs for living place (rusunawa) in city space East Java province. Rusunawa is a part of strategic plan from Flats directorate, ministry of public works and society housing in 2020-2024 which provides new houses for about 107-967 units through program flats building, special house and stimulant budget for constructing new self-subsistent house. Rusunawa is made especially for the people who has low income, and were built in around 18.380 unit. The method of taking data is using in-depth interviews on four members of sandwich generation which located in Malang, Probolinggo, Surabaya, and Sidoarjo also second data resources in form of empirical study report and government documents which related strategic plan rusunawa construction, the number of sandwich generation, also number of possession status of the rental house. The result is the narratives of experiences of sandwich generation for choosing a place to live also the interaction that happened among the sandwich generation in defining urban resilience. This debate happens in the context of understanding and embedding the word of tough and defense city in the thought of the sandwich generation. The economy factor happened dominantly to the sandwich generation for choosing the needs of a place to live other than the capacity of economy capacity, human, also disturbance during pandemic. All together think about the economy capacity which they had in a way of more to choose a place to stay with ste status of 'rental house' than possesed their own house without considering another capacities in the elements of city defense. This thing become contradictory in the middle of effort of the government which getting intense to the evaluation of indicator of the tough city for manifesting city defense.

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Konflik Sosial Menantu Yang Tinggal Serumah Dengan Mertua (Studi Kasus Di Desa Lempang Kecamatan Tanete Riaja Kabupaten Barru)

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Mewujudkan Keluarga Harmonis Melalui Pengelolaan Konflik Mertua Dan Menantu

Mewujudkan Keluarga Harmonis Melalui Pengelolaan Konflik Mertua Dan Menantu

A Critical Discourse Analysis of Ustadz Khalid Basalamah’s Lecture Fragment on Youtube About “Durhaka Kepada Orang Tua Karena Istri”

Rusunawa dan Sandwich Generation: Resiliensi Masa Pandemi di Ruang Perkotaan

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