“…If people mistakenly anticipate a somewhat awkward interaction, then they may choose to express warmth through more psychologically distant communication media in which the awkwardness of a negative reaction might be dulled, such as in writing rather than in face-to-face interaction. The problem is that text-based media do not appear to communicate one's sincere intention, positive emotion, or deliberate thought as clearly as voice-based or faceto-face media (Hall & Schmid Mast, 2007;Kruger, Epley, Parker, & Ng, 2005;Schroeder & Epley, 2016;Zaki, Bolger, & Ochsner, 2009). If expected awkwardness is miscalibrated, then people might also choose media for communicating their gratitude that could be suboptimal as well (Kumar & Epley, 2018a).…”