Faktor Penyebab Terjadinya Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga Terhadap Perempuan

Abstract

ABSTRAKKekerasan memang tidak memandang gender, namun terlihat sangat jelas dari data yang disajikan bahwa kekerasan terhadap perempuan sangatlah mengkhawatirkan. Konflik yang tidak kian usai dapat menimbulkan Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga (KDRT). Tingkat KDRT yang setiap tahunnya cenderung meningkat menandakan bahwa korban mulai menyadari bahwa tindak KDRT bukanlah sesuatu yang dapat dinormalisasi, sehingga korban memiliki hak untuk memperjuangkan hak hidup aman dan lebih baik. Pernikahan yang seharusnya menjadi sebuah ruang yang nyaman untuk sepasang manusia, justru menjadi ruang paling menakutkan bagi sebagian perempuan. Adapun faktor-faktor terjadinya kekerasan terhadap perempuan dalam rumah tangga khususnya yang dilakukan oleh suami terhadap istri sangatlah beragam. KDRT merupakan sebuah perilaku yang memberikan dampak yang sangat kompleks terhadap perempuan korban KDRT. Tindak kekerasan tersebut menghasilkan dampak psikologis terhadap perempuan korban KDRT. Salah satu upaya penanganan yaitu adanya pemenuhan hak terhadap perempuan korban KDRT. Pemahaman budaya kesetaraan sangat dibutuhkan dalam kehidupan berpasangan, keluarga, maupun masyarakat. Dengan fakta, data, dan aturan dalam Undang-Undang yang sudah ada dan ditetapkan, seharusnya pemerintah dan lembaga-lembaga anti kekerasan terhadap perempuan dapat bergerak lebih luwes lagi untuk membantu dan melindungi perempuan korban kekerasan ABSTRACTViolence is not see gender, but is clearly evident from the data presented above that violence against women is alarming. After the conflict he could cause domestic violence. The domestic violence which annually tended to increase indicates that starting to realize that victims of domestic violence is not something that can be normalized, the victim has a right to safe enforcing their rights and better. Marriage should be a room that is comfortable for a pair of men, have been the most terrifying for some women. As for the causes of domestic violence against women particularly those undertaken by the husband against the wife is very diverse. Behavior that domestic violence is a very complex impact the victims of domestic violence against women. Psychological violence resulted in the impact the victims of domestic violence against women. One of efforts to handle the fulfillment of the rights of the victims of domestic violence against women. Understanding culture equality is needed in the life of in pairs, family, and the community. To the fact, data, and rules in a law that was and set, the government should and institutions anti violence against women can move more flexible again to help and protect women a victim of violence.

The Impact of Tazkiyatun an-Nafs Counseling in Reducing the Trauma of Violence Experienced by a Wife

“…This phenomenon often makes some wives unable to be independent or economically empowered, so when domestic violence occurs, the wife must survive. This kind of behavior also makes the husband feel that he has more power over the helplessness of his wife (Alimi & Nurwati, 2021).…”

“…Then the data on acts of violence against women during 2021 can be seen in the following Source (Widi, 2021) From table 1, we can see that the trend of cases of violence against women is increasing and the most occurs in wives. Domestic violence will leave a psychological impact on the victim as the victim will feel anxious, frightened, depressed, always alert, continue to imagine when seeing similar cases, often daydreaming, moody, easy to cry, difficulty sleeping nightmares, loss of selfconfidence, to act feeling helpless; Loss of interest in self-care, irregularity of the pattern of life lived; Decreased concentration of a person, often performs careless deeds; Low self-esteem and unsure of existing abilities; Quiet, reluctant to chat, often shutting himself in the room; Loss of courage in opinion and action; Always feel confused and forget easily; Frequent self-harm and attempted suicide; Behaving excessively and unorthodoxly tends to be difficult to control oneself; Aggressive, being a character whose temperament and emotions are rude in speaking and acting (Alimi & Nurwati, 2021;Maisah & SS, 2016) This is also what the clients I deal with experience. My client, a woman as a Housewife, experienced domestic violence committed by her husband.…”

Edukasi Stop KDRT Melalui Pemanfaatan Media Sosial Instagram

“…Akan ada masalah yang datang silih berganti dan tidak sedikit penyelesaian problematika rumah tangga ditempuh dengan menggunakan melakukan tindakan kekerasan. Perilaku kekerasan atau suatu tindak kekerasan merupakan ungkapan perasaan dengan melakukan tindakan yang keliru karena hilangnya kontrol diri akibat adanya pemicu dari permasalahan fisik maupun psikologis yang mengakibatkan bahaya terhadap diri sendiri, individu lain maupun lingkungan sosial (Alimi & Nurwati, 2021).…”

Law and Society Approach on Legal Protection for Victims of Domestic Violence

“…3. Still completely limited in freedom because they are still riding on parents or in-laws (Alimi & Nurwati, 2021;Harefa, 2021).…”